Self sabotage is staying stuck in 20 to 30 year old behavior patterns you already understand intellectually but have not changed through action.
In this clip Steve Sapourn names the gap high achievers feel: understanding the system and environment matters, but it does not change anything by itself. Moving from reaction to response takes courage to change, trust to go inside without fear, and concrete behavior change repeated over time.
Takeaways:
• Insight explains the pattern. Action interrupts it
• Limiting beliefs hold through the nervous system, not logic alone
• Small courageous steps build personal reinvention
Clip is from the full conversation with Steve Sapourn and Roger Kastner - Successful But Feeling Unlovable | Steve Sapourn on Trauma, Nervous System Regulation & Courage.
Watch the full conversation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tPhJmPA-X7Q&list=PLbWfh34FP_dUcAaCrI31z00_fLdphi6b7&index=1
FAQ:
Q: What is self sabotage? A: Self sabotage is repeating old protective patterns even when you know better, often rooted in limiting beliefs and nervous system adaptation.
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